This class that I started today was pretty good. I found out that on January 24th they are meeting as a group to socialize at a local restaurant and have invited me to go. This would be good for me. The highlight of the luncheon is reading books and discussing them. The teacher of the class asked me if I read books, and I kind of chuckled and said no, but I write and have written one book and started another. She seemed excited. She treated me like I was someone famous. I laughed out loud, because I definitely am not famous.
Now I wish I would have lied and said yes I read books. She wants me to read one of my poems or a short story. You know me. I don’t think I am good enough or have enough talent to read in front of people.
Give me your honest opinion. Do you think I should do this? Or will I make a fool of myself in front of these nice people? Should I politely turn her request down?
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Beautiful Terry,
You wrote a book and that’s wonderful. Not everyone can say that! Believe in what you wrote and stand up and read it with confidence! I say, Go for it! ………. Paula xxx
Don’t put yourself down, be proud of who you are and what you have achieved.
alright Paula, how in the world do you do it!!! You see me so differently than I see myself!!!
I’m not judging you by how you look and what you have! You write and I see your heart and soul. And its a beautiful one and don’t let anyone tell you anything different! Hugs Paula xxxxxx
that’s right. you don’t know me any other way but by my words that come from my heart. thank you. you are so beautiful
Somewhere in that torrent of emotion you have spent agonizing over this probably lurks the notion that you thought you had something valuable to share, otherwise you never would have written. Stand on that. It is valuable. I would suggest not worrying about what others think and just worry about the valuable thing you have to say and the audience will pick up on the value through the passion with which you deliver it. I hope this helps…
in other words, enjoy being able to share and others will see it………..interesting look, something i would not have done. I am so wishing that I had more belief in my own worth
What I am saying is pick something from your work that moves you and just share it with the intensity you meant it with when you wrote it. Focus on what you have to give (your passion and thoughts) not what you are getting (reaction). If you think your worthless then somebody got you to believe a lie, even if that somebody is now you. Be honest. First time it will be scary, so what? Courage is not whether or not you have fear, it’s what you choose to do no matter how you feel.
i know where i got my feelings of worthless from, but i m trying to fix it now at this point in my life. my best bet would b to talk of Al, from one of my posts, where i am most passionate. thank u for your help. you have really opened my eyes and have shown me i can do this
you told her you were a writer and i would guess because you are proud of your writing. you have shared your writing with us and gotten our feedback. maybe it is time to see faces and get the experience of sharing with people face to face. i hope you do it and enjoy!
you do? it is so easy to speak my heart when I am hiding behind the screen, but in front of others………..i guess i never thought she would invite me to speak. i spoke before thinking, and yes it was because I was proud of what i write. I can give it a try
i believe in you and know that you can do this! you will be embraced not only for your talent but for your bravery.
bravery is what I will walk in there with!!!! LOL
Here’s your chance…an opportunity…have faith in yourself…read one of your stories that you remember everyone oooing and ahhhing about…Definitely…do it…How wonderful that you are meeting people already…I knew it would be good for you!…love ya, mkg
thank you Marilyn…….maybe i could read the poem that I dedicated to Al or maybe a short story. hmmmmmm
You have a gift Terry …use it and share it. …Diane
thanks for the boost in confidence. why don’t i see what you do? maybe because i have spent my life trying to prove my worth and now you are saying i am worth it
Terry are you kidding me? Do it! You are so talented, and most definitely blessed! Your work is beautiful and each piece you do is better than the one before. Please do go ahead and do it.
you really believe in me Kadeen. i will do it for you…………
Of course I do! You’re amazing! You don’t need to show the world, you just need to show yourself. Everything else will fall into place. Take God’s blessings and let that light of yours shine! <3<3<3
thanks for helping me Kadeen. I don’t know what I would do without your friendship
I don’t remember who, but someone wise once said our biggest regrets in life are not the things we did, but those we didn’t do. Go for it!
i have heard that somewhere too. I had forgotten it. Cindy thank you so much for reminding me. I will give it a shot. what is the worst that can happen,……..
go for it Terry!
you think i have it in me to not screw up?
Of course you do, you just need to know it! This is a great way to find out! Take a leap of faith dear friend. Even if on the off chance that you think you “screwed up” what’s the worst that could happen?
I would run for the back door??? hehe
I think your writing is wonderful, and I am sure that confident part of you knows that you have do e well, or it wouldnt have spoken up! But as an I trovert, I. Know that sometimes the idea of socializing with a new group, let alone Sharing, can distress me to the point where I might avoid the situation. If that is the case for you, and it is not just normal stage-fright, then maybe just go to the meeting without expectation the first time, and then build from there. Glad you are meeting folks!
I know I will be so shy, I don’t want to look like a shy idiot. I want to look like i believe in myself, than I think i could do it
Oh, there’s no doubt that you will do well with your reading. Even if you come across as shy, nobody minds that. You won’t look like an idiot.
DH takes writing seminars, then quits on his day to read aloud. I know you will need to be ” out there” if you intend to publish. But if you are just writing for itself, and speaking would make the difference between going or not, then I think just going is itself important.
Different than butterflies in your stomach…stage fright is normal and necessary. When that goes away, I think things have gotten boring
you have made some valid points. i am going to give it a shot. thanks so much for helping me out so much here
Reblogged this on Simon Sundaraj-Keun.
thank you so much for honoring me with a reblog. I am truly blessed
By all means, go for it. You write well.
Oh thank you so much for boosting my confidence John. I have decided to give it a try. What is the worst that could happen, pee my pants!!! LOLOL
Do it my friend, you are an excellent writer and have a lot to share! God bless!
thank you Loopy. thank you for being so helpful building my confidence in myself. all of you have been so helpful. I am seriously considering it, it i flop i can run for the back door
Terry, you share your beautiful stories with all of us in the blogosphere every day. Just pretend you’re reading to us. Our love will see you through this exciting opportunity to share face-to-face. Go for it! xoxoM
I can look over their heads and see all of you standing behind them. sort of like focusing when you are giving birth. maybe this is something from God? an opportunity? I don’t know, but I have decided to step out in faith. thank you Margarita for helping me through this
Yes! A gift from God, with all of us holding you in a virtual group hug! xoxoM
this is why i will do it. if it is a gift from God I will try hard not to disappoint him
Go for it, sweet Terry! I know they will be blessed!
I am going to give it a try. so many of you think i should, so i will do my best
Do it, do it!
I am going to try since there is so much encouragement. every one else thinks i can do it
Be bold. Do it. Go for it.
I am going to be bold with no italics! this may be the one opportunity i have. thanks for helping boost me. i just kept thinking i am no one, they would want someone who knows someone
Terry, go for it, your writings re beautiful and fantastic. Give yourself some credit, and do it. Be proud of yourself, take your confidence with you adn go for it. It is the right thing for you and it will give you more than you expect. Please go Terry and enjoy it. With Love Ute
all of you have been wonderful. i just couldn’t figure out why me, a nobody, why not someone well known………but thanks to all of your wonderful comments, i am going to give it a try
On the one hand, we shouldn’t have to do things that make us uncomfortable; on the other, stepping out of our comfort zone is exciting and exhilarating.
I would go for it!
that’s exactly what it is, number one i am no one special in the book and reading department, number two it is out of my comfort zone, but stepping out in faith could be of help and who knows,,,,,,,,maybe they will enjoy what i read
I’m sure they will
Hi, listen …. this is your chance – and now you take it. If you’re good enough is all in the listeners ears – Maybe not everybody will like it – but I know most of them will do – if they like poetry. You’re GOOD and don’t doubt yourself. You just go for it. This is one of your moments.
i have decided that with the nudging and boosting of all of you, i am going to give it a shot. what is the worst that can happen? no one claps. hehe
That is the right attitude … what can happens ??? Nothing.
I’m sure you will be asked again.
that would be nice……..
I’m sure your work is wonderful. Take a chance a read in front of class.
I like it but I don’t know if I am good enough to do this
Take a chance! this could be another E.o.t.T. moment! If you want to make sure you’re comfortable you could narrow down the choices to a few and ask the teacher to pick one or two she’d like you to read. That way you’d know you have at least one person in the audience prepared and ready to enjoy your work. Just a thought. You’ll do great!
what a good idea!!! thank you. I will do this!
Perhaps this could be a boost to your self confidence, be proud of your work xXx
it certainly could not hurt it right??? I like what I do, but will others………….
As with anything, you cant please everyones tastes. so no matter what the situation is not everyone will be happy. What it comes down to is if you did read it, and one person liked it, how would you feel? would you be happy? xXx
I clearly see your point! I know that if one person liked it I would be thrilled. Thank you for letting me see it at a different angle
Terry,
Self-deprecation undermines us and causes us to hold ourselves back from using our gifts and strengthening areas we may not be as strong in. Authors have to stretch themselves beyond their inherently introverted worlds and take the risk of sharing their precious “children” with the world at large. Doing so in this small setting and with this small group of people may be just the thing to begin getting you familiar with and acclimated to being out of your comfort zone.
Blessings,
Kina
you mean I have to come out of my comfort zone. this is true. I have decided to give it a try. it can’t hurt and maybe it will open up some door……………thanks for the great comment!
I think you should do it. I think you’ll do fine and they’ll be impressed.
Don’t get stressed though. Remember you do it because you enjoy it.
I am going to give it a try. It can’t hurt anyone I guess…….I do enjoy my writing, this is so true
Of course you should do it!! I just wish I could be there to cheer you on!! You go, girl!!!
I have decided to give it a try. What can happen, that i can not run out of the back door?? LOL