When you think you are helping someone, you get the look! I called the Scooter Company, while my brother was eating his lunch. I wanted to see if there was any help for him to help him be able to go more places and keep some of his independence. I got the look. The shaking of the head back and forth in a no direction. Al hates being talked about. Only if it is something good or funny that he doesn’t mind. He got so angry with me because I was answering their questions. Actually, I have been afraid to see if we could get him a chair. The cost of them even with medicare, leaves us with a twenty percent out-of-pocket expense. He heard me telling the representative about his diagnosis, and his age, and birth date. He finished eating and went straight to his room shaking his head all the way. I tried to ignore him, as I knew this would better him. By the time I got off the phone, he was already fast asleep. I also worry, because I won’t be able to pick this new chair up, if he is approved. Medicare will pay for it, this is approved already, now it is up to the doctor that we now go to see on this Friday. If he is willing to fill out the paper work. I think he will be, but you never know for sure until you hear the word yes. In order to be able to use this chair to take places I will have to do something about our car. I don’t know about a lift, and what it costs, or if it will even fit on our car. I guess I will pray about it and worry after I know if he gets the chair or not for sure. I had run Al and me to the store and bought a new stain for the rocker. It was a quick in and out of store thing, so Al didn’t have any problems with this today. Here is a picture of the finished rocker. It is outside drying, and soon they will be able to take it home and the little one will be able to rock all he wants. It makes me feel good when I can place smiles on others faces. It makes me also feel useful. I think this is why I have mainly been only a mom and a caregiver most of my life. I did have my antique business, but it was more seasonal. I would love to get back into this one day. It is nice and quiet in here with Al sleeping, so I think I will go out in the yard and water my flower bulbs. Out of twelve, four are now peeking out of the ground. Talk to you soon.
I recently started looking into getting my mother inlaw a scooter, too. Those things are REALLY heavy. I think the best way to transport it might be using one of those hitch mounted carrier, with ramp. I’m kind of curious what your setup will be 🙂
BTW, great looking rocking chair!
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thank you. i will see what happens if we get the chair. i can’t help but be a little worried, but they said with Al’s unsteadiness, they were afraid to try anything else where he may fall. plus thank you for the comment on the rocker!
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if you continue to read my blogs, u can see the new chair. the power chair is way too expensive. i also would have had to buy a lift, pay a garage to install it and adjust the suspension. very expensive. this one comes apart, i can load it in the trunk. it goes five to six hours on one charge. has variable speed, and it was 900
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i have just nominated you for one lovely blog award!
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Hot diggity!! I am already happy enought to be following your blog and your amazing story with Al, this is just the icing on an already incredible cake 🙂
Thank you very much for your nomination 🙂
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enjoy it my friend!!!! u deserve it
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you bet!
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I like the rocker, you did a great job!
Getting a power chair will be great for Al, I pray it will go through. He may be a little upset today, but if he gets the power chair he will be happy to be able to maneuver himself around.
Walk daily with God at your side!
Ed
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that is my thinking too Ed. if he gets the power chair, he will forget about the conversation
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Praying that the new chair works out! That would be so nice! And how smart of you to think of it! 🙂 Hoping Al comes around and shakes his head yes when he gets zooming around in it! love and prayers!
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i think he will love having a little more independence, being able to ride around our house and our private street don’t you?
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here’s hoping everything works out with the chair! i love the rocking chair!!!
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thanks, so do we!
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i have just nominated you for the sisterhood of the world bloggers award!
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how sweet are you! thank you Terry!
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I’m sure he will get the scooter…If you can get a fold-a-way scooter perhaps it would collapse and fit into the trunk of the car..It would likely not be too heavy for you to lift….Diane
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that is what i wanted but they would not ok it because of his unsteadiness. they want him to have a solid with arms because of his falls, so i don’t know what i am going to do
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i have just nominated you for the sisterhood of the world blogger award!
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Al will probably see the benefits once he gets to try it out…Hope the tyransporting issue can be worked out for you…I love the chair…but, refinishing something to me is a hard job…You made it sound like good therapy for you though…So get another item and go for it! ~mkg
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i will if someone needs something done!
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We got a second hand one for Husband only weeks before he went into care (of course we didn’t know that was going to happen when we got the scooter). If you lived closer I would give it to you!
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i am worried how i am going to haul it around. i have no lift and i own a car. i would so take it if u were close, because we have to pay between 700-800 for our 20%. thank you for offering
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Might not be worth it – hmmmm.
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u may be right. tomorrow i am hoping to go to the scooter store and look for the kind of chair that folds up to fit in trunk but still allows him to drive it
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Terry, I don’t know how you could be anymore useful. Your day to day care for Al is a testament of your love for him. Sometimes we don’t realize we are doing the most important work of our life.
We box our puzzle pieces of the day and wonder what we accomplished. Your box is a 24/7 response to a need giving you very little time for yourself. Oh if more people could be as unselfish as you are. Your life is Al is a book you need to write. It would help many others in the same situation you are in. God bless.
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that is an interesting idea. thank you for saying these wonderful words. you see me so differently than i see myself. i see me as someone who can do nothing more for him but let him know i am here and i love him
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Terry, your blog here is a resolution of a book. Keep every one you write along with any journals or notes you have made. God takes the hard and difficult times and turns them around for good. He also doesn’t waste anything. Every move you make for Al, every moment you are placing him above yourself is a God given gift many don’t have. I for one don’t know how or if I could do what you are doing. It is easy to give up, but it is hard to continue and press on. Keep pressing and watch what God does.
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i am just an every day girl trying to show my brother i care. writing a book, i have thought about this on and off today. i assume i would need someone to guide me as i know nothing of writing books, although i would love to share my story with others who are suffering what we are suffering through, so they do not feel alone
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Speaking of looks, I love the new blog look. Very inviting. And ignore Al’s look. If the scooter comes through, he will enjoy it and forget how it got there. Have a great day! Sandy
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thank you Sandy for the comment on the blog page. i was messing around and came upon the idea by accident. i love butterflies. Al did get his scooter, which i am very thankful for
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THAT’S SOOOO GREAT! I only have the basic WP. My husband wants me to upgrade but I’m having a crisis of confidence, I think. What he really wants me to do is get the whole webpage thing that WP offers for $99. I guess I need to ask others what they think of the upgrade. (Not whether I should do it, but if they’ve done it and if they like it, LOL) Sandy
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Love the cozy rocking chair! Loves!
Pink.
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i only have the basic, so far i don’t feel the need to update, and there are many other domains for less money
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i wanted to sit in it and rock, but my butt would not fit! lol. thank u for the compliment Pink!
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