The last four days were so nice for Al and me and then it ended this morning. His tremors were back to full force and he was having a lot of pain. His whole day seemed to be nothing but tears and pain.
His shower girl came and he spoke to her of death and he cried the complete time she was here. She even remarked what a change there was from Monday. Then one of his therapist came and did some exercises and he cried and complained of too much pain. He would tell her he wanted to quit because he hurt too bad. She really did not let up, as I assume she knew what she had to do as his therapist, but my heart ached for his pain.
After she left it was only fifteen minutes until the next therapist came. This doesn’t usually happen this way, but today it did. When she came in I told her he was in a lot of pain and was not feeling well, and I didn’t know what kind of luck she was going to have with him, since the other therapist had just left.
I told her he was in bed, that he had headed there as soon as the last lady left. This therapist is what I call the cream of the crop. Not only does she know her job well, she is kind and compassionate, and does her best to bring Al’s spirits around. She told me she was going to go back to his room and do some massages on him, and I instantly felt jealous! LOL
She was back there about a half an hour, and when she came back she said that he was totally relaxed and asleep. She explained to me what she did, and that it was something that was not practiced that much anymore, but she hoped that it would help him. She explained that he could feel relaxed only for the moment, or it may last a few hours.
She said that his body was a limp noodle right now, and I just looked at her. She said he is so relaxed, that he was not even having one tremor. The procedure she used on him that not many use anymore is called Myofascial Release.
This is a link that I found online after she left, because of course, I always have to google what I don’t know so I can get with the picture. I placed it here in case any of you want to check it out for yourself or someone you know that could benefit. I went in and peeked in on him, and he is lying very still with his body totally stretched out. Wow, that must feel wonderful to him.
I am not even going to wake him up, since supper is in the crock pot, it will be safe, ham and beans on a chilly day. I will let him sleep until he wakes on his own. I am so anxious to see if there is a change in his personality or his movements and what he has to say about the whole massage.
Let’s keep our fingers crossed and hope that it last a few hours instead of a moment. I will let you know later on how it went.
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If you feel that you have made mistakes and missed the best life that God had for you, remember: it is never too late to begin again.
Believe this, friends. Believe it.
Praise God for giving every one of us the grace and the strength we need to make something of our lives, no matter where we’ve been.
If you’re in a bad place, don’t let discouragement get to you. Don’t let the bad guy convince you that you’re not worthy of good things. Don’t let people put you down or make you feel bad. Most importantly, don’t ever give up.
You were made to do great things…and if you feel like you haven’t done that so far, the best is yet to come. It is never too late to begin again.