Daily Prompt; Sweet Sixteen/The Daily Post

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When you were 16, what did you think your life would look like? Does it look like that? Is that a good thing?

I don’t remember a whole lot at the age of 16. I do remember me getting my driver’s license. I had my first job. Mom and Dad always said if you want extra’s in life, work for it. I remember in my mind thinking that I was going to be in the health care field. It wasn’t going to be what I am actually doing today. I was going to be a Physical Therapist or a counselor for teens.

Life was fairly simple at that age. The normal drama that teens go through was really not that much out of the norm. Dating, good grades, helping out at home, and getting a pay check, and most of all friends. Not one or two, but as many as I could gather. Quality was not the issue then, quantity was.

I dreamed of getting married and having kids. I dreamed of the happily ever after that a lot of girls do. It doesn’t always work out this way, and it didn’t for me either. God brings changes and test in to our lives to strengthen us and hopefully find our own path in life as individuals.

Today, I have been married and am divorced. I did have the fairy tale dream for a while, but that was short-lived. I do have three wonderful and beautiful kids. I guess they are not kids any longer but in my heart they are still my kids.

I did go into health care, but on a more personal level. I did schooling and certificates, but have spent the last 23 years taking care of someone else. The goal was not like I thought it would be. Help them heal and they walk out of my office in the end, paying me and skipping on through life.

My goal now is to bring comfort. To wipe the brow of a lonesome soul. To gently wash the tears a way. To bring comfort the only way I know how through my words and touch. I am proud of where I have been led. I have come to know many wonderful human beings. I have touched hearts and souls with so many.

I may not have a glamour life. I may not spend my spare evenings dancing and bar hopping. I may not even be the life of the party. But, I am where I am supposed to be at this time in my life.

Now with Al being in another home, I am searching for the road that will lead me further into helping another soul. Maybe it will not be in health care. Maybe it will be through my words. I don’t know. I loved my dreams back when I was sixteen, but I love me more for the lives I have been able to touch and heal.

16 thoughts on “Daily Prompt; Sweet Sixteen/The Daily Post

    • I want to be younger,,,,,,,,I think back to about when I was 30 and life was great! It could take a few weeks to a couple of months before Al is moved or anything is changed, at least from what I was told


      • Okay, just as I read that Al has moved home again .. I thought it was all done.
        30 wasn’t that great for me .. 35 was really bad for some reason. *smile – I think we are better of, being in the age we are.


  1. I had dreams when I was sixteen, and none of them were realized except for having a daughter. My marriage was not happy and when I look back on it, I realize we should never have married, but you live and learn. Where I am now is not so bad. If I could be younger and know what I know now, I would take better care of myself so maybe I would not be having major dental work done so I can have a knee replacement next month!!


  2. I feel much more better now with my 54 years, then when I was 16. I would like to go back if I had known, what I know now. I definetely would change it, but on the other hand, I’m happy I learnt so much on my path, so that I can help others with the knowledge I have 🙂


  3. Beautiful post, Terry! I was pregnant at 16 and my whole world changed. I would have loved to have not been a teenage mum. But at the end of the day I have a gorgeous 28 year old son that I adore…like a best friend! Night from Oz Terry!! Hugs Paula x


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