When I arrived today to see Al, he was crying and so upset with the staff. He and I had talked yesterday about him trading his diet hot cocoa in and drinking a glass of apple juice instead since it is warmer outside.
He evidently tried doing it for lunch but they wouldn’t let him. Two nurses showed up at his table once they saw Al trying to explain to me what was going on. They didn’t know why he couldn’t have the juice. Maybe it was too much acid with the daily orange juice at breakfast. Maybe he couldn’t have the hot chocolate and the apple juice.
Both nurses told Al and me that they would ask the proper person on Monday. I begged them to let him have the juice. This was his birthday party after all and one glass would not hurt or kill him I thought, but they would not budge.
So it didn’t make a real good start to Al’s birthday party. Eventually he gave it up when he began eating his cake and ice-cream. I didn’t hear anything else about it as he was opening his gifts I gave him. I bet the facility hears about it at supper tonight though.
Al smiled a few smiles for me and then he got tired and started to hurt. That ended the party and I cleaned up while an aide helped him go potty. I sat with him while he and I watched TV and then he fell asleep.
I told him I would be back later and that I loved him. I think all in all he enjoyed his special time. Here are a few photos I took of him today.
A singing birthday card that got a good smile out of him when he listened to it.
Getting ready to open a gift after eating some cake.
One of his gifts that got another smile.
His other car that got a big smile.
After I left Al sleeping I stopped at a local laundry mat and dropped off my winter comforter to be cleaned. I couldn’t believe they were or are going to charge me $15.00. The prices sure have risen. But, I can’t fit it in my washer at home so I guess I will pay it.
I also stopped at a yard sale that was close to my house. I found these and placed it on my website for sale. I will give you the link if you would care to look at anything. Everything is negotiable if you are interested. If you want to pay the S&H for your area, I will be glad to mail it to you.
Well I guess you get to see a bit of background of my house in this.
An oval photo of a military man in a bubble glass frame
A small paper book about immigrants.
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Glad he had a good day eventually. Hopefully his card will turn up any day 🙂
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He received three cards today. Two of them I recognize, but there is one, that looks as if it is Air Mail. It has a signature on the back but I can’t make it out. Al’s name is typed out. I haven’t opened it. i will take it to Al to open. Could this be yours?
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I had it sent to Alvin Alvin It came from a company, as they do personalised ones
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this could be it then, I will let u know tomorrow when he opens it
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That will be cool if it is 🙂
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it sure will!!!
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*hugs* sorry I forgot it was al’s big day. At least he got to smile a little.
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don’t worry about it!!!!!! yes, i saw three smiles!!
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You are Al’s angel, Terry! God bless you as you help him smile still! Happy Birthday to Al!
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Well I don’t know about an angel, but I do love him. Thanks Debbie
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Mmm… The cake sure looks good!
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I left some for Al but I have a few pieces here, come on over!!!
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I’m glad Al’s birthday was mostly happy. It’s good to see him smile. It doesn’t make sense why they would stop him from having apple juice. But who understands bureaucracy? Hopefully they will get that sorted out before too long.
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I don’t know either,especially after he just lost all that weight
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Glad he had a good birthday in spite of it all. Was he a fan of “Highway Patrol” with Broderick Crawford, too? For some reason that was my favorite show as a kid.
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he liked anything that had a police car, especially Andy Griffith
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Happy Birthday Al! Hope he got my message on the Facebook page you set up 🙂 Sounds like all in all, he had a decent day with some smiles in it so I am glad for that. Glad you were able to spend time with him on his big day.
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thanks Brian. He got your message along with so many. I printed them off and took them to him and read each of them to him. He really enjoyed knowing so many well wishers had thought of him
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I think Al is very happy to have you 🙂
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thanks Yoshiko, I think I am pretty happy to have him too!
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Bless you both and happy birthday to Al!
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thank you so much Ken. you are very kind
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Al, looks great …. And I’m so happy that you and Al got a good day. He are so happy over his police car … wonderful and he got some cake and most of it is gone. Love your finds, both book and figurine.
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yeah he looked good. My son and his family were there also, but they don’t care to be in my blogs, but that is why a lot of cake is gone. He sure did like his new cars
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Yes, I read that they where there too … nice for Al and you, will send a new card … soon, because there is more other days than there is birthdays.
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that is so kind Vivi, thank you
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Al looked as though he liked his police car gifts…I saw the smile…
Why in the world he couldn’t have apple juice…Give me a break!…
I’m glad he had you with him today…Birthdays are special!
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oh he really did. He was still talking about the police cars yesterday. They are both sitting on his bedside table or he is holding them. it is so cute
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Happy Birthday Al. The best gift was that smile Terry 🙂
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that was the ultimate best of the whole day, his smiles
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