I have went on and on trying to please this one and that one. Afraid of hurting feelings. Trying to do what was right for Al.
In the end I got the final results this morning. Al is too sick. His body and height are out of the guidelines.
I have deleted the fundraising post and the explanation post.
I will continue to tell Al that I will look and that I am aware of his wishes, but in the end unless a miracle from God takes place the topic of his donating any part of his diseased body is dead.