Dear Terry,
I am so sorry to hear of Al’s passing. He is now at peace and healed. I am praying for you and your loved ones and friends. Al has his angel wings and I am sure so so thankful for everything you have done for him. May God bless you and give you peace. Let me know if there is anything we can do.
As his soul finds rest in the warmth of God’s peace and love may the Almighty comfort you. God bless you Terry, you have been a superwoman and Al couldn’t have asked for a better sister. May his memory live on.
You no doubt have mixed feelings right now, knowing that this is what Al has been wanting for some time, but also knowing that you will miss him and things will not be the same now. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time, Terry — hugs to you.
Terry, While I am very sorry for your loss, I am glad that Al is now at peace and with the Lord. Take care of yourself in the coming days as you take care of all the necessary arrangements. Know there are many people who care about you and continue to pray for you.
The end is such a mix of emotions. Al is at peace now and that makes his passing easier on those he leaves behind. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Terry your caregiving is a life changing experience and you are among a group of very special people. Take care. Carol
I’m terribly sorry for your loss. After reading your blog for a while now, I really believe that Al is at peace and I hope that you find peace and comfort now.
My dear sister: Al is singing, dancing, and drinking Coca Cola with the angels and your parents in heaven. You have done an extraordinary work here on earth. Your strenght and determination to provide the ultimate in carw for each member of your household is a testimony to the God who is in you. Our family sends love.
Terry, Al is finally at peace and where he wants to be with this horrible disease no longer with him. I know he is smiling and walking with Jesus and telling stories. He will be missed and I’m truely sorry!
Dear Terry, while I grieve with you over the loss of your beloved brother, I also am rejoicing with you that he is free. How ironic that you were looking forward to some vacation time this week. I’m afraid you may be busier than ever for the next few days. Please keep posting for us here as you progress through this week, and through the grieving you will experience. Love and prayers.
Terry, yes – your dear brother knew you loved him so very much. Beneath the disease and illness, his heart was very pure and he had tremendous knowledge of the depth of your love for him. God bless you, my sister!
Good morning,
Praise the Lord! I know he is rejoicing. My prayers are with you as you now come to terms with your new path on your journey.
Shalom,
Patricia
Now Al is no longer suffering…………………he will always be with you in spirit………..you have done a tremendous job of caring for your brother , sad days ahead for you but try to think of him at peace now……………God Bless Terry Connolly in Ireland
Terry although I know this is bitter sweet, since Al has relief and you’re probably feeling both heart broken and relief for him. I very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and I pray for a peace that surpasses all understanding over you. xo
In so many was – I wish things could have been different.
May your beloved brother – Al – rest in peace as he no longer suffers from any pain.
I know that you lovingly hold him in your heart. And – for that – he will always be with you.
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Terry, I can’t imagine the mix of emotions you must be feeling right now. While your heart is aching, at least you can take comfort that Al has finally been released from the grips of MSA and is at peace now. I will be keeping your family in my thoughts.
Terry, may his soul rest in peace. I am so sorry for your loss. Al impacted so many lives thru your messages to us on the internet. I know he is in heaven, where he will feel no more pain, but pure joy and happiness. You have been the best sister and caretaker for your brother. He was so lucky to have you. I pray for him and you. You and Al are an inspiration to all of us and I am happy to have gotten to know you. Continue to take each day one at a time. Sending you love and a big hug.
Terry, I just want to offer you my deepest condolences on the loss of your brother. I know how much you loved him. I’m very sorry to hear this. I pray that God’s peace will flood your heart today and comfort you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out at any time if you need anything. There are a whole lot of people hugging you right now. You’re a great sister and you loved Al so well. I know he is smiling down at you right now. He’s your angel now, Terry. God bless you my friend. Peace be with you.
I am sorry Terry, You now have a wonderful angel watching over you in heaven. He is smiling at you and saying thank you for being his sister and being there for him. Rest in peace Al.. Big hugs!
I’m so very sorry for your loss and for everything that both of you have endured. It was a long and difficult road. God bless Al, who is now soaring with the angels.
Oh Terry…I know Al’s suffering has ended, and there is reason to rejoice in that, but I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Even though it was expected, there is no question that saying goodbye is never easy. My prayer for you is that you will know God’s comfort and peace during this time of mourning, that you will find joy in your memories, and you will wake to each new day with greater hope as you move forward. Much love to you, Terry, much love.
Terry I weep, because I know how deeply you loved your brother and caused us to love him too. But we do not weep as those who do not know God. We weep because, you weep and our tears are tears of joy, because we know that Al is joyously in the presence of the Savior.
Terry you have blessed us and demonstrated overwhelming love of a sister toward her brother. As you encouraged Al, you have encouraged us.
May the Lord turn your weeping into laughter, your sorrow into joy, your mourning into happiness, and your countenance into peace that surpasses understanding.
May the love of God, His strength, comfort and peace continue to be your companion.
This I pray…
I’m praying for you. He will be missed very much. But he suffers no more. God please bless Al Shepherd your new Angel.
LOVElla Green
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Terry, I am sorry for your loss and I am thinking of you. For Al it is a blessing , no more pain , he is in heaven where he was ready to go. Continue to be strong, God has heard our prayes and will still be with you too. I know you will miss Al terribly. We all will, he was part of our “blog family”
God bless you!
My poor, dear girl, I am so sad for you but I know he was ready for it. God bless you and keep you. God cause His face to shine upon you. All my love x
Oh dear Terry,
My heart cries for you. Even though you had so very long to “prepare” yourself, it must still be a shock and a deep loss.
((HUGS)) to you. Difficult times ahead but God will carry you through as He has through these past months when Al was so very sick. Glad Al was still at home with you when he passed. You have done an awesome job, super sister.
Now take care of yourself and by all means stay connected with us all.
May he rest in peace!! He’s not suffering anymore. His journey on this plane is done!!! Rest for you … in a sense!! Luv sent through cyberspace!!! Hugs …. ❤ ❤ ……
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A sad time for one of our fellow bloggers. Her younger brother has passed on to the next plane. May he rest in PEACE!!
Dear Terry,hugs and love to you and Al today. I believe Al is finally at peace and his soul is resting. I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
Our condolences go out for you sweetheart. I know your glad his suffering is over. But I also know how hard this is as you loved him so dear. Continuing to pray for you. Again I am so sorry for your loss.
Terry, he frighted for so long … and he are where he wants to be now and I’m so happy for Al – How are you doing, Terry ??? You’re in my thoughts and you know where I’m if you need to.
Terry, I know this leaves a huge hole in your heart but at the same time a peace knowing that Al is whole once again and where he has wanted to be for a long time – rejoicing with Jesus. I am so happy that he died at home as you both desired. I will be praying for you because I know that this next few days will be full, and when they are over it will be very difficult for you without him. Take care of yourself. God bless you and fill your life with His peace and comfort.
I’m so sorry for your loss Terry. I pray that the Lord comforts you and that you find peace in His presence during your time of grief. You don’t need to be strong and hide your feelings now, so go ahead and allow yourself to grieve. When you need to cry, remember that God keeps the tears of His beloved children in His bottle, and He keeps record of those tears, because He loves you.
Terry, I am so sorry to hear about Al’s passing. He was struggling for such a long time though, and now he has finally gotten the rest he truly deserves. For him there isn’t anymore sadness, he no longer has to suffer through the humiliation of having his body do things against his will, and most of all, he no longer has to deal with rejection, unconcerned, selfish healthcare systems or the misery of being uncomfortable in his own body.
You have a difficult time ahead of you, but even as you deal with the feeling of an empty house, and a sense of no longer having a purpose, remember that God is there. He’ll be there to hold you when you want to weep in private, and He’ll be listening every time you just want to share something, especially those things you don’t think you can tell another human soul, and He’ll be holding your hand as you move through this process, and these emotions.
You did all that could, perhaps even morr than you should have, so just remember that Al did appreciate it all. He loved you, he appreciated the care, affection and adoration you’l showered with since childhood. And he knew that you fought the disease, with everything you could find, for him. Now he’s resting, he’s peaceful, and just rememberone last thinthing–he would want you to remember to take care of yourself for a little while now. You’ve worked with superwoman strength through an emotionally and physically arduous act of love. Take a deep breath, sit down and allow yourself to grieve, and live. You did well, Terry and, Al knew you did your best–no matter how you felt or acted in a moment of so-called weakness.
May Al rest in peace, and may you find strength and hope in the knowledge that you did everything you could for him. Your care and devotion to him during his illness are an inspiration to many. My prayers and thoughts continue to be with you as you struggle with the sadness of your loss.
Dearest Terry,
I know it has been a horrible roller coaster ride with Al’s illness! Please know that you are in my prayers and please be comforted that Al is in a peaceful place now!
Love , Sue
though i am sad for you my friend i am happy for Al. i know that he has been released from the restrictions of his sick body. may he truly rest in peace. big warm hugs and love to you my friend
Wow! I am glad yes! Glad to hear He is with the lover of His soul and the lifter of His head. My God bless you and keep you while encouragement flows to you like a river. May our companion the Holy Comforter extend his loving arms of mercy, love, grace and newness of life to you on this day and every day until Jesus comes.
I haven’t been reading your blog long but I will be happy to see what new doors will be opened unto you because of your faithfulness. I know Al has has been given a tour of Heaven and He is looking down from Heaven smiling at you saying, girl when you get here I will be waiting.
Oh, Terry. I hope you are doing the best that you can at this time. I’m so very sorry to have come to your blog after more than a year of knowing you to hear of the inevitable: Al’s time to leave this earth has come. You must feel as if half your heart has been torn out, even though we both knew the time was near. I was trying to visit every few days as a result and I realized I hadn’t heard back from you after I left that comment about the “cycle of life” with your grandchild being born (possible on the 24th?) and I got to my laptop as soon as I could today–already knowing what I would read and see. I’m sending all the love I have to you, and even though this is what Al wanted and needed and he is no longer suffering, the loss of someone so close is never easy and it’s a process. I never say that it’s a blessing in disguise because life can be so unfair and cruel as we both know: none of this should have ever happened in the first place, but life is just that way and bad things happen to good people.
Take the time you need and thank you for sharing Al’s story with me and the world, including the end of his “cycle of life.” It’s important as we all get our day and thank the Lord that Al had you to tell it. I will never forget your dear brother, Al–the greatest Coca Cola aficionado in the world–nor will I forget MSA and the awful beast that it is. And, my dear Terry, I’m still here and will check in as I do–you’re my top bookmark. You have another (near) 60 years of stories to tell and enlighten the world with. Stay strong, but find a shoulder to lean on now. Know that Al is finally at peace and that you will see him again one day–back to his old ways as things like MSA don’t leave this earth with us.
Much love and hugs at this time and always,
A ❤ ❤ ❤
Who I am 
He is at peace Terry…and his memory will forever be a blessing.
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Thank you Mimi
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R.I.P. Al. Be at peace. My thoughts are with Terry
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Thank you so much dear friend
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You’re welcome Terry. I wanted people to know as soon as possible.
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Although I clicked “Like” you know I am thinking of you at this time Terry. You know he is now at peace and MSA has released its hold on him.
{{{{HUGS}}}}
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Yes, he is. I just need to keep remembering this. Giant hugs
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I know it’s going to be difficult. It will be for a long while. ust – don’t move house before the end of the month 🙂
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I am saddened to learn of your loss. I send a warm embrace as you work through heartbreak.
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Thank you so much my friend
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I feel for you, I do. Warm embrace.
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Dear Terry,
I am so sorry to hear of Al’s passing. He is now at peace and healed. I am praying for you and your loved ones and friends. Al has his angel wings and I am sure so so thankful for everything you have done for him. May God bless you and give you peace. Let me know if there is anything we can do.
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Thank you so much my friend. I will let you know
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I’m so sorry for your loss Terry. He’s at peace now, my prayers and hugs to you at this time…
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Thank you so much Seyi
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As his soul finds rest in the warmth of God’s peace and love may the Almighty comfort you. God bless you Terry, you have been a superwoman and Al couldn’t have asked for a better sister. May his memory live on.
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Thank you so much Michael
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Thoughts and prayers with you my blessed friend xxx
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Thank you so very much Gee
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You no doubt have mixed feelings right now, knowing that this is what Al has been wanting for some time, but also knowing that you will miss him and things will not be the same now. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this time, Terry — hugs to you.
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Thank you Becky. You are exactly right. I am so messed up right now
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SORRY FOR YOUR LOST. Will keep you in my prayers. Your brother is at peace in the arms of God.
BE ENCOURAGED! BE BLESSED!
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Thank you so much my dear friend
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Sending you all my love, Terry. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
*warm hug*
xx
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Thank you so much Michelle. hugs
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Terry, While I am very sorry for your loss, I am glad that Al is now at peace and with the Lord. Take care of yourself in the coming days as you take care of all the necessary arrangements. Know there are many people who care about you and continue to pray for you.
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Thank you so very much my dear friend. Hugs
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Terry I’m so sorry for your great loss May he always Rest In Peace
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Thank you so much
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OMG Terry – I have only just seen this and crying for you now. Please keep blogging!
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Oh Julie, it hurts so bad
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Every second you are in my thoughts Terry.
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So sorry, Terry, and yet I’m very happy for Terry. Remember how special you are to all of us. Sending hugs long distance, Debb
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Thank you very much Debb
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Oops, I meant to say your dear brother is now with the Lord, and we are happy for this. Sad for you, though. 😦
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I understand Debb, thank you
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I’m very sorry for your loss Terry. May he rests in peace.
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Thank you my friend
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The end is such a mix of emotions. Al is at peace now and that makes his passing easier on those he leaves behind. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Terry your caregiving is a life changing experience and you are among a group of very special people. Take care. Carol
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Thank you so very much Carol
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While I am very sad I also rejoice for Al no more pain and for you no more watching him in pain…. I know you’ll give specifics later… Diane
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Thanks Diane, I just blogged specifics. thanks and hugs
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I sent you an email…. Diane xo
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I’m terribly sorry for your loss. After reading your blog for a while now, I really believe that Al is at peace and I hope that you find peace and comfort now.
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Thank you so much Miss C
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Al is at peace at last. Hugs and healing wishes
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Thank you Tersia
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So very sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family to find peace.
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Thanks so much Angel
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I’m very sorry for your loss. God with you Terry.
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Thank you Popy
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My dear sister: Al is singing, dancing, and drinking Coca Cola with the angels and your parents in heaven. You have done an extraordinary work here on earth. Your strenght and determination to provide the ultimate in carw for each member of your household is a testimony to the God who is in you. Our family sends love.
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Thank you and bless you AR
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Dear Terry,
So sorry for your loss. I h ope you can take comfort in knowing that his suffering is over and he is at peace.
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Thank you very much Naomi
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It was a long journey, my thoughts are with you in your loss.
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It sure was, I am glad he is no longer in pain but I miss him like crazy
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I’m so sorry for your loss Terry. My thoughts are with you at this time. He is at peace now.. Xx
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Thank you so much Apple!!!
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My condolences to you….Thank you for sharing your time with Al and the excellent care you gave him…
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You are very welcome. It was my pleasure
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Continuing to send hugs and prayers to you…
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May the Lord bless you with peace and strength. May He use all that has taken place for His glory and honor. Lord be with you in a very special way.
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Thank you Rob, it is so hard right now
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Terry, Al is finally at peace and where he wants to be with this horrible disease no longer with him. I know he is smiling and walking with Jesus and telling stories. He will be missed and I’m truely sorry!
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Thanks Gina and thanks for being so kind to him
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Dear Terry, while I grieve with you over the loss of your beloved brother, I also am rejoicing with you that he is free. How ironic that you were looking forward to some vacation time this week. I’m afraid you may be busier than ever for the next few days. Please keep posting for us here as you progress through this week, and through the grieving you will experience. Love and prayers.
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You are right. I was looking forward to some respite, but not quite like this. I hope he knew how much I loved him
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Terry, yes – your dear brother knew you loved him so very much. Beneath the disease and illness, his heart was very pure and he had tremendous knowledge of the depth of your love for him. God bless you, my sister!
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If he didn’t before, and I’m sure he did, he knows it now.
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The Angels will guard and protect him now. Terry, my thoughts are with you. Hugs, Brenda
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Thank you Brenda
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Good morning,
Praise the Lord! I know he is rejoicing. My prayers are with you as you now come to terms with your new path on your journey.
Shalom,
Patricia
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Thank you so much Pat
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Now Al is no longer suffering…………………he will always be with you in spirit………..you have done a tremendous job of caring for your brother , sad days ahead for you but try to think of him at peace now……………God Bless Terry Connolly in Ireland
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Thanks so much Terry
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now his suffering is over. May he rest in peace……………he will always be with you in spirit.God Bless you Terry from another Terry in Ireland.
Date: Mon, 24 Mar 2014 13:25:16 +0000 To: teracon22@live.ie
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Thinking of you as you continue on while Al starts a new journey. He’ll be driving those cars now. Keep on truckin’ Terry, I know you can do it. {hug}
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Terry although I know this is bitter sweet, since Al has relief and you’re probably feeling both heart broken and relief for him. I very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and I pray for a peace that surpasses all understanding over you. xo
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Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. God bless.
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Thank you God. Hugs to you my dear friend.
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In so many was – I wish things could have been different.
May your beloved brother – Al – rest in peace as he no longer suffers from any pain.
I know that you lovingly hold him in your heart. And – for that – he will always be with you.
{Hugs}
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My condolences to you. I am sorry for your loss.
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Terry, I can’t imagine the mix of emotions you must be feeling right now. While your heart is aching, at least you can take comfort that Al has finally been released from the grips of MSA and is at peace now. I will be keeping your family in my thoughts.
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Terry, may his soul rest in peace. I am so sorry for your loss. Al impacted so many lives thru your messages to us on the internet. I know he is in heaven, where he will feel no more pain, but pure joy and happiness. You have been the best sister and caretaker for your brother. He was so lucky to have you. I pray for him and you. You and Al are an inspiration to all of us and I am happy to have gotten to know you. Continue to take each day one at a time. Sending you love and a big hug.
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Sorry Terry I just read this. Are you holding up ok? We know Al is. Much love and kindness I send your way. Sheri
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I hope you are doing okay and I know God is taking care of one of his newest Angels. God Bless you and Al!
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REST IN PEACE Dear Al… I seemed to sense a sadness this morning…and now I now why!
Details of funeral if you have time!…Time-Date-Hours…
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Crying and holding you in my heart and prayers. love you.
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Terry, I just want to offer you my deepest condolences on the loss of your brother. I know how much you loved him. I’m very sorry to hear this. I pray that God’s peace will flood your heart today and comfort you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out at any time if you need anything. There are a whole lot of people hugging you right now. You’re a great sister and you loved Al so well. I know he is smiling down at you right now. He’s your angel now, Terry. God bless you my friend. Peace be with you.
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I am sorry Terry, You now have a wonderful angel watching over you in heaven. He is smiling at you and saying thank you for being his sister and being there for him. Rest in peace Al.. Big hugs!
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God give you peace and comfort you.. Praying for you as you as always, my friend. ❤
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I’m so very sorry for your loss and for everything that both of you have endured. It was a long and difficult road. God bless Al, who is now soaring with the angels.
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I’m so sorry for your loss!
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Oh Terry…I know Al’s suffering has ended, and there is reason to rejoice in that, but I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Even though it was expected, there is no question that saying goodbye is never easy. My prayer for you is that you will know God’s comfort and peace during this time of mourning, that you will find joy in your memories, and you will wake to each new day with greater hope as you move forward. Much love to you, Terry, much love.
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I’m so sorry for your loss, but Al is now in Heaven where all his ills are gone and he is at peace. God bless you and be strong.
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Terry I weep, because I know how deeply you loved your brother and caused us to love him too. But we do not weep as those who do not know God. We weep because, you weep and our tears are tears of joy, because we know that Al is joyously in the presence of the Savior.
Terry you have blessed us and demonstrated overwhelming love of a sister toward her brother. As you encouraged Al, you have encouraged us.
May the Lord turn your weeping into laughter, your sorrow into joy, your mourning into happiness, and your countenance into peace that surpasses understanding.
May the love of God, His strength, comfort and peace continue to be your companion.
This I pray…
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I’m praying for you. He will be missed very much. But he suffers no more. God please bless Al Shepherd your new Angel.
LOVElla Green
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Prayers and love flying your way!
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Terry, I am sorry for your loss and I am thinking of you. For Al it is a blessing , no more pain , he is in heaven where he was ready to go. Continue to be strong, God has heard our prayes and will still be with you too. I know you will miss Al terribly. We all will, he was part of our “blog family”
God bless you!
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R.I.P Al. Sending tight hugs to you, Terry. xx
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My poor, dear girl, I am so sad for you but I know he was ready for it. God bless you and keep you. God cause His face to shine upon you. All my love x
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Oh, I am sorry and will keep you in my prayers.
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I am sorry for your loss Terry and I feel for you at this time of mixed emotions.
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Thank you so much Suz
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I am so sorry Terry. I hope you can take some comfort knowing that Al has no more suffering ((Hugs)).
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I am trying real hard Caren
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Oh dear Terry,
My heart cries for you. Even though you had so very long to “prepare” yourself, it must still be a shock and a deep loss.
((HUGS)) to you. Difficult times ahead but God will carry you through as He has through these past months when Al was so very sick. Glad Al was still at home with you when he passed. You have done an awesome job, super sister.
Now take care of yourself and by all means stay connected with us all.
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He passed in a way I thought he would never pass. It was awful and a nightmare. Thank you Linda
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R.I.P Al……………..My God’s grace and peace be with you and your family Terry *hugs*
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Thank you so much
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You will be missed Al. Hugs to you Terry. You are a wonderful sister. Grace and strength to you.
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My prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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May he rest in peace!! He’s not suffering anymore. His journey on this plane is done!!! Rest for you … in a sense!! Luv sent through cyberspace!!! Hugs …. ❤ ❤ ……
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Praise God Al is free and we pray of comfort and strength to you sweet Terry.
Hugs and love and strength from us to you.
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so so sorry, Terry. But it was time. Al is finally able to rest.
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Dear Terry,hugs and love to you and Al today. I believe Al is finally at peace and his soul is resting. I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.
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Our condolences go out for you sweetheart. I know your glad his suffering is over. But I also know how hard this is as you loved him so dear. Continuing to pray for you. Again I am so sorry for your loss.
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My deepest sympathy my friend…he’s in peace now and watching over you, just like an angel…,t thoughts and prayers are with you, be strong…Delvi.
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Terry, he frighted for so long … and he are where he wants to be now and I’m so happy for Al – How are you doing, Terry ??? You’re in my thoughts and you know where I’m if you need to.
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Terry, I know this leaves a huge hole in your heart but at the same time a peace knowing that Al is whole once again and where he has wanted to be for a long time – rejoicing with Jesus. I am so happy that he died at home as you both desired. I will be praying for you because I know that this next few days will be full, and when they are over it will be very difficult for you without him. Take care of yourself. God bless you and fill your life with His peace and comfort.
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I’m so sorry for your loss Terry. I pray that the Lord comforts you and that you find peace in His presence during your time of grief. You don’t need to be strong and hide your feelings now, so go ahead and allow yourself to grieve. When you need to cry, remember that God keeps the tears of His beloved children in His bottle, and He keeps record of those tears, because He loves you.
God bless you,
Cheryl
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*giant hugs* he is finally at peace. My thoughts are with you, please don’t doubt you did everything you could for him. Rest in peace al.
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Yes he is at peace, but I am so sad
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Love and hugs
xoxo
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Thank you Lady
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Always hun-stay strong
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Terry, I am so sorry to hear about Al’s passing. He was struggling for such a long time though, and now he has finally gotten the rest he truly deserves. For him there isn’t anymore sadness, he no longer has to suffer through the humiliation of having his body do things against his will, and most of all, he no longer has to deal with rejection, unconcerned, selfish healthcare systems or the misery of being uncomfortable in his own body.
You have a difficult time ahead of you, but even as you deal with the feeling of an empty house, and a sense of no longer having a purpose, remember that God is there. He’ll be there to hold you when you want to weep in private, and He’ll be listening every time you just want to share something, especially those things you don’t think you can tell another human soul, and He’ll be holding your hand as you move through this process, and these emotions.
You did all that could, perhaps even morr than you should have, so just remember that Al did appreciate it all. He loved you, he appreciated the care, affection and adoration you’l showered with since childhood. And he knew that you fought the disease, with everything you could find, for him. Now he’s resting, he’s peaceful, and just rememberone last thinthing–he would want you to remember to take care of yourself for a little while now. You’ve worked with superwoman strength through an emotionally and physically arduous act of love. Take a deep breath, sit down and allow yourself to grieve, and live. You did well, Terry and, Al knew you did your best–no matter how you felt or acted in a moment of so-called weakness.
Take care♥♥♥
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Thank you so much Kadeen. I appreciate your wonderful comment. Hugs
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May Al rest in peace, and may you find strength and hope in the knowledge that you did everything you could for him. Your care and devotion to him during his illness are an inspiration to many. My prayers and thoughts continue to be with you as you struggle with the sadness of your loss.
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Dearest Terry,
I know it has been a horrible roller coaster ride with Al’s illness! Please know that you are in my prayers and please be comforted that Al is in a peaceful place now!
Love , Sue
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God has blessed Al. Now let His blessing guide you through the grief you are suffering.
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Thank you Mona
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though i am sad for you my friend i am happy for Al. i know that he has been released from the restrictions of his sick body. may he truly rest in peace. big warm hugs and love to you my friend
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Thanks so much my friend
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So sorry to hear of your loss … sending lots of love your way x
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Thanks so much Lady
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Wow! I am glad yes! Glad to hear He is with the lover of His soul and the lifter of His head. My God bless you and keep you while encouragement flows to you like a river. May our companion the Holy Comforter extend his loving arms of mercy, love, grace and newness of life to you on this day and every day until Jesus comes.
I haven’t been reading your blog long but I will be happy to see what new doors will be opened unto you because of your faithfulness. I know Al has has been given a tour of Heaven and He is looking down from Heaven smiling at you saying, girl when you get here I will be waiting.
Love,
Your friend in Florida
IiAdoreMyInk
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Oh, Terry. I hope you are doing the best that you can at this time. I’m so very sorry to have come to your blog after more than a year of knowing you to hear of the inevitable: Al’s time to leave this earth has come. You must feel as if half your heart has been torn out, even though we both knew the time was near. I was trying to visit every few days as a result and I realized I hadn’t heard back from you after I left that comment about the “cycle of life” with your grandchild being born (possible on the 24th?) and I got to my laptop as soon as I could today–already knowing what I would read and see. I’m sending all the love I have to you, and even though this is what Al wanted and needed and he is no longer suffering, the loss of someone so close is never easy and it’s a process. I never say that it’s a blessing in disguise because life can be so unfair and cruel as we both know: none of this should have ever happened in the first place, but life is just that way and bad things happen to good people.
Take the time you need and thank you for sharing Al’s story with me and the world, including the end of his “cycle of life.” It’s important as we all get our day and thank the Lord that Al had you to tell it. I will never forget your dear brother, Al–the greatest Coca Cola aficionado in the world–nor will I forget MSA and the awful beast that it is. And, my dear Terry, I’m still here and will check in as I do–you’re my top bookmark. You have another (near) 60 years of stories to tell and enlighten the world with. Stay strong, but find a shoulder to lean on now. Know that Al is finally at peace and that you will see him again one day–back to his old ways as things like MSA don’t leave this earth with us.
Much love and hugs at this time and always,
A ❤ ❤ ❤
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I have been thinking of you today and your brother. My heartfelt condolences. Prayers to you and yours. Seeker.
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